DEALING WITH A GUILTY BROTHER
(Matthew 18:15-18)
This might at first glance seem out of place with
the earlier passages. But with further examination it fits well with
what has been spoken by the Lord. Jesus has gone into detail about
not offending, causing to stumble, other brethren. He then talks
about the great value of just one of these "little ones" in the sight of
God. In this section he takes up the procedure to be used when one
brother has offended another. Instead of leaving the church or getting
mad this procedure should be used.
Remember, these procedures envision a dispute between
brethren, not an open, flagrant sin. These verses also do not envision
those who would teach false doctrine publicly. While these verse
represent valuable principles when dealing with an erring brother, we should
realize that there may be times when we might be forced to take quicker,
direct action to exercise discipline.
NOTE: JESUS IS SPEAKING IN BOTH THE PRESENT AND FUTURE SENSES.
THE PRINCIPLES OF PROBLEM RESOLUTION SPOKEN OF HERE COULD BE USED BY THE
DISCIPLES IN THE PRESENT. BUT JESUS ALSO SPEAKS OF THE CHURCH, SOMETHING
THAT WAS YET IN THE FUTURE. THIS SHOWED THAT JESUS WAS LAYING THE
GROUNDWORK FOR HIS CHURCH THAT HE SPOKE OF IN MATTHEW CHAPTER 16.
Verse 15- "Moreover if thy brother shall trespass against
thee, go and tell him his fault between thee and him alone: if he shall
hear thee, thou hast gained thy brother."
A. "If thy brother shall trespass against thee"
1. This is dealing with
disputes between individual brethren.
2. This is not specificly
speaking of doctrinal disputes, such as the teaching of false
doctrine.
B. This is showing that we should be concerned about
our relationships with our
brethren.
1. See also Matthew 5:23,24
2. The basic thrust is to
not let any problem between brethren cause a soul to be lost.
C. This passage prohibits the spreading of false
and malicious gossip about brethren.
1. He says to first, "go
and tell him his fault between thee and him alone."
2. This is to begin as a
private rebuke, exhortation, plea.
3. Must be done in the spirit
of meekness.
a. Galatians 6:1
D. "If he shall hear thee, thou hast gained thy
brother"
1. If he shall repent and
seek your, and God's, forgiveness.
2. This is showing the great
joy of restoring a brother who has been lost.
a. James 5:19,20
b. Jude 22,23
3. "A quarrel is a lose
to both parties; a reconciliation is a gain for both."
(Pulpit Commentary)
Verse 16- "But if he will not hear {thee, then} take with
thee one or two more, that in the mouth of two or three witnesses every
word may be established."
A. "But if he will not hear thee, then take with
thee one or two more"
1. Those brethren who accompanied
might win the erring brother.
2. These other brethren
might have some influence over the erring
brother that perhaps you might not have.
B. "That in the mouth of two or three witnesses
every word may be established."
1. Found in Deut. 19:15;
John 8:17; 2 Corinthians 13:1.
2. This is for a legal purpose.
3. If this quarrel need
be taken before the church there are those who can testify
as to the circumstances
of the problem.
C. Purpose of witnesses (Wendell Winkler)
1. The facts of the matter
would need to be verified before it were brought
before the church.
2. Will more quickly lead
the erring brother to repentance.
3. May help arbitrate the
matter at hand and suggest solutions.
4. Could establish the innocence
of the other party.
5. Could serve as the preparation
for the next step.
Verse 17- "And if he shall neglect to hear them, tell
{it} unto the church: but if he neglect to hear the church, let him be
unto thee as an heathen man and a publican."
A. "And if he shall neglect to hear them"
1. After you have personally
tried to resolve the matter, after other brethren have
gone, if it has not been resolved, it is time for the congregation to settle
it.
B. "If he neglect to hear the church"
1. This is a brother/sister
who does not intend to repent/settle a problem,
even after every avenue has been exhausted.
2. This is the brother/sister
who thumbs his nose at the Lord and the church.
3. He knows his sin but
refuses to repent.
C. "let him be unto thee as an heathen man and a
publican."
1. He must be excluded from
the fellowship of faithful Christians.
2. A heathen man was one
who was not part of the congregation of Israel.
3. A publican was a Jew,
who by his actions, cut himself from the congregation
of Israel.
D. Some other verses that deal with church discipline.
1. Romans 16:17
2. 1 Corinthians 5:1-7
3. 2 Thessalonians 3:14,15
E. This, of course, did not mean that the erring
Christian would be "shunned" and not
allowed back in the fellowship
if there were repentance.
1. The whole practice of
discipline is for the purpose of bringing repentance.
2. See 1 Corinthians 5:5,
2 Thessalonians 3:14,15
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